Who can ever tell that true love can possibly be found online? Five ye

Published Wednesday, 16th Sep 17:20 BST

Who can ever tell that true love can possibly be found online?

Five years ago, I and Ronnie are two individual souls looking for love.

And this is how our beautiful love story began...

I broke up with my boyfriend five years ago and was in so much pain and heartache. I could not let go and was very insistent on pushing through with my relationship with this guy but he said things will not work for us. I wanted a commitment while he cannot commit; I wanted marriage and he did not want it. I wanted kids while he did not want them. We have no future together. I was devastated.

I refused to get out of the house for few weeks. Half of me wanted to keep in touch with him, while the other half of me wanted to run away and hate him.

While I was in a world that I thought was completely crumbled, my bestfriend Adel was there all the time to comfort me. Adel has never been in a long term relationship. She is the kind of girl who would enjoy dating single men but never plunge into a serious relationship. She said dating single men is fun because she can date and enjoy their company without any pressure at all.

After three weeks of spending most of my time and days inside the house, I felt like I have already drained all my tears. With my friend Adel around visiting me almost everyday and ringing me at least twice a day, everything felt lighter. I can even start to smile now and have a laugh with Adel and my family.

Adel jokingly told me that dating single men is the best thing to do while waiting for the right man to pursue me. She said, "why not consider dating single men and just have fun? When the right man comes, he will pursue you and you wouldn't even need to look for him. He will find you."

Those are the words that I always hear and it echoes everytime I look at my husband's face now. I can't believe that love comes easy when you are not looking for it. Ronnie was introduced to me by Adel's sister. We dated for several months. I was stunned when Ronnie proposed to me. It was a beautiful feeling how a man who is truly in love with me have finally found me and asked me to be in his life forever.

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