My Adult Stories

I could have never imagined the way my life would turn out. I could have never guessed while sitting in my living room, eating popcorn on a Saturday night, just five years ago that I would be married and have a child in just a few short years. I was not that much of an optimist.Just the idea of a man who would love me forever and a family to go home to every night was to big of a... dream. I could hardly even hold onto a boyfriend how was I ever supposed to embrace the idea of holding onto a family.

I was aterribledate, in my own personal opinion. I mean I was only twenty five years old but I was a librarian. What was sexy about that? I loved my career but hot twenty five year old men did not, the only men I went out with were nearly twice my age. I never even liked the idea of dating single men who were loved dating single women young enough to be theredaughters. I thought of the men as perverts and the women who would date them as gold diggers. I wanted a man to grow old with not a man who was already old. The men I did date who were my own age were weird. They liked to play weird sex games with the "naughtylibrarian". dating single men becameespeciallydifficult when my family got involved. Everyone had someone to set me up with, even my grandmother. How she even knew anyone my age was a shock.

Anyways this is all besides the point. What I really want to tell you is how I met the man of my dreams. So I was sitting inside of a Starbucks, one day when all of a sudden out of the blue some man walks into the coffee shop and sits at the table right across form me. It was like one of those super lame scenes that you see in some ridiculous "romantic comedy". He was tall, had dark brown hair combed to the side, and wore glasses over the most beautiful pair of blue eyes I had ever seen. He had a perfect smile and perfect teeth, which I was always taught to appreciate. We spoke when we both got up and grabbed for the same sugar cube. I guess we just never stopped speaking.

Now that I look back on it, dating single men was not what I thought it would be. I was sure whole I was young that it would be fun and wild. Instead it was difficult and a bit depressing. But then you meet someone who changes your mind. I met him, and together we met our daughter.