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In our technological age, online dating has certainly become the popul

Published Wednesday, 9th Sep 13:30 BST

In our technological age, online dating has certainly become the popular method of meeting potential partners. Many people regard it as a better situation because it lacks the pressure that most feel in the dating environment. If you're shy and not comfortable in social situations, it gives you the space to be at your best. There's enough to worry about when you're out dating, like body language, facial expressions and saying the right things at the right time. These things are often misunderstood and make already anxious daters even more tentative.


Dating men that you meet at a bar is not quite my idea of easy. It is

Published Tuesday, 1st Sep 17:03 BST

Dating men that you meet at a bar is not quite my idea of easy. It is so difficult to find someone genuine. They all seem to be after one thing, and one thing only. I am not that kind of girl. I want to meet someone nice and that has standards. I know that there is somebody out there for me and wants the same things that I want. Just getting out there and finding him is the hard part. I know that I'm not going to wake up one day and he will suddenly be there, but it shouldn't be as difficult as it has been. The whole dating scene is just so overwhelming at times I just want to give up. But at the same time, it can be exciting to meet new people, just not the ones who want to take advantage. I like the caressing and the kisses, but not when I feel like it will lead to sex and that is it. I'm looking for a partner on a deeper level. I want to be in-love with my partner. To want him to be happy, that same way that I feel. Treat others the way you want to be treated is what I always say, and stand behind that phrase 100%.


I just moved to London and I got to say, the girls here are pretty hot

Published Thursday, 27th Aug 09:42 BST

I just moved to London and I got to say, the girls here are pretty hot. I mean dating in London is the prime place to date. Girls in mini skirts with accents. It's just amazing. I never thought London dating would be this fun but it actually is pretty good. Personally, I didn't expect to get many girls but london dating is really easy. Girls basically mob you on the streets or check you out if you got a pretty face. I don't really like the whole girl mobbing me idea but there is one girl that stands out from my London dating list.


My heart was pumping blood so hard when I smelt the stunning and sexy

Published Wednesday, 26th Aug 00:24 BST

My heart was pumping blood so hard when I smelt the stunning and sexy aroma of aftershave on his sweet neck after visiting him at the restaurant on our amazing first date. I could feel my heart, pounding hard in my chest and my skin went slightly red as I began to heat up, and the temperature in the room and inside my body began to rise. I had never felt this hot, or flustered before. God knows how a simple guy from a london dating site could have this effect. This was just a huge mystery to me, although, in all fairness, I had heard london dating was surrounded by mystery. I was so happy that I decided to try out dating with a london dating site for I knew I would have never met this guy, a man I could have ever only dreamed about and I was just so happy that london dating was making this a reality to me. He really was a dream. I just wanted him to run his fingers through my hair and kiss me all over. Kiss every inch of my body. I wanted an embrace and I wanted intimacy. I was hungry for some passion from this man. I wanted to feel the touch of his skin and feel his hard member along side me. I wanted him to drive me wild and I wanted him now. I wanted to cuddle up close to him, and smell that sweet aroma, ruffle my hands through his hair and just never let go. I wanted to feel the beat of his heart through his chest on mine. I had never ever felt this way about any other man before. He was completely sensational. He made my whole body burst with excitement that I felt completely overwhelmed with emotion. I decided I could not waste time. After all, life is short and for all I knew I could be hit by a bus, or murdered, or simply fall asleep and never wake up ever again at any time, so I decided that I needed to make sure he was mine forever. Now, usually men propose but I did not see the problem with popping the question myself. I decided to bake a chocolate tart with icing with small letters making out the words 'Will you marry me'. I was so excited to hear him say yes.


I really don't know all that much about swingers, or how they live the

Published Tuesday, 25th Aug 08:23 BST

I really don't know all that much about swingers, or how they live their lives. I can't really judge anyone by their choices if I don't know all the facts about what it is all about. All I know about married couples being swingers is that they have an open relationship with other married couples, or singles. For me personally, I don't understand how exciting it can be for the couples to share their relationships with others. I wasn't brought up that way. I am spiritual but not really religious, but I thought that sharing intimaterelationships with others other than your spouse, is a sin. Seeing other people outside your marriage, isn't that considered dating?


Dating is a multi million dollar industry with people all around the w

Published Monday, 24th Aug 08:10 BST

Dating is a multi million dollar industry with people all around the world wanting to find people to spend their lives with. They seek happiness and love from different dating websites online and even in real life. where I live there is a very popular service called London dating that has just started up a few months ago and is predicted to be a huge success in the next coming years. It's a very new and exciting concept where London dating is the first ever dating service to help you set up your first date by paying for it.


I left my husband in 2000.He was an abusive alcoholic and I no longer

Published Monday, 24th Aug 07:57 BST

I left my husband in 2000.He was an abusive alcoholic and I no longer loved him.I had been married for 23 years.I had met a gorgeous man who I felt a connection to.I tried my best not to feel an attraction to this man but I could not seem to help myself.Meeting him did give me the courage to leave my abusive marriage, and I felt like my soul was freed from the torment I have lived with for so long. While I know I should have been dating single men, this man was also very unhappy in his marriage.I felt such a connection to him and we were both miserable in our relationships.So I decide to take a chance and see if there was a future for me with this attractive man. I know I used to think the worst of anyone who messed with a married man and now I was the one doing it.But both of our lives were so empty of love and happiness.dating single men was not an option now. The first time he gave me a kiss,I was scared but mesmerized at the same time.We kept seeing each other and I even moved in with one of my close girlfriends.It was hard to be out on my own after so long in my marriage.It was so scary, but exciting in a way.I saw my friend most every day.I fell in love with him. I managed to move to a motel and I worked for a while for an old friend.I made enough money to pay my rent and buy gas.It was very tough.After a few months,I was able to move into a camper on the motel's campground.It was a very beautiful place.Lots of birds,squirrels and lovely trees.I began to work at the motel cleaning rooms.It was an awful job but it kept a roof over my head.I worked 7 days a week.I had no days off.Maybe dating single men would have been easier. My friend and I were closer than ever and we were both in love with each other.I became divorced in November of 2001.My friend was still married.I held on to the hope that he would see that we should be together. He started to tell me of his financial problems over the years.All were due to his wife and how she handled the money. They had been evicted,lost cars and been in debt.All the while, she promise to change. The turning point in our relationship came when his car was repossessed because she had not been paying his car payment.He had finally had enough and he moved in with me. That was over 6 years ago.We now live near my mother and have a menagerie of pets.We are very happy together and my 26 year old son says my friend is the only dad he has.He is dating single girls and has finally found one he thinks may be the ONE. Sometimes what we do NOT know about people is what makes a difference.Never judge anyone on their actions because you don't know what they may be living with or going through.I am living proof.


My sister shared the details of a dating experience she recently had,

Published Monday, 24th Aug 07:40 BST

My sister shared the details of a dating experience she recently had, which has made me weary of these dating free online sites that are all over the net. It would be rather premature for me to say that all the dating free online sites are bad, but my sister's experience made me realize one needs to be careful while using these sites.


He did not have a girlfriend, but he has lots of friends to entertain

Published Friday, 21st Aug 06:01 BST

He did not have a girlfriend, but he has lots of friends to entertain him. Some nights, they went out clubbing and flirting with girls, but other nights he could feel the emptiness and loneliness crept within his soul. He met a few girls before and once he was close to the girl he thought would be his forever, but she dumped him for another guy. He was not bad looking in fact he found that many women would threw him smiles when he greeted them. When he sat on the bar, he could easily hook some girls into conversations and usually these girls would not reject if he asked for their telephone numbers.


I need to find a free online dating service that links married people

Published Wednesday, 19th Aug 23:08 BST

I need to find a free online dating service that links married people to other married individuals looking for a fling. I am handsome successful business man and I have not been happy with my wife lately. She does not satisfy me in bed anymore and is so lazy when it come to doing the act. All she ever does is complain about how much her head hurts or how tires she is, I am really getting sick of her nonchalant behavior towards sex. I don't want to leave her just yet because I don't know if this is just a phase, but something needs to change. In the meantime, I am considering having an affair to let off my sexual frustration.


This is the story of how I found out that my grandmother used to be a

Published Wednesday, 19th Aug 05:41 BST

This is the story of how I found out that my grandmother used to be a swinger during the second world war. I always knew my grandmother could dance because she was always tapping her toes to the sounds of the music that used to blast out of the radio that she had sitting on her kitchen table each time I came around to visit. I remember one day I went around without notice and I could see my grandmother standing on her balcony dancing to this song of a pretty Asian girl singing the lyrics "caress me tonight and you will find true love all your life". It was a catchy tune and even though my grandmother was 90 years old she could move like someone that was at least 20 years her junior.


Who doesn't dream of a candle light dinner - a romantic dinner with 2

Published Wednesday, 19th Aug 02:48 BST

Who doesn't dream of a candle light dinner - a romantic dinner with 2 people who feel attracted to each other? And after the dinner you will spend the night together. How about that?


"What's so wrong with dating men? Dating me?" he asked with a scowl on

Published Sunday, 16th Aug 07:32 BST

"What's so wrong with dating men? Dating me?" he asked with a scowl on his face.


I am already 36 and dating men in my city has become verycompetitive a

Published Saturday, 15th Aug 05:08 BST

I am already 36 and dating men in my city has become verycompetitive and hard. There are so many single women available that it has virtually become a girl buffet for men. It must be so easy for them to get sex now that there are so many of us fighting for them. I have even been reduced to being set up on a blind date by some good friends of mine.


Regina stood in the shower and let the water rundown her petite body.

Published Saturday, 15th Aug 05:04 BST

Regina stood in the shower and let the water rundown her petite body. Her thoughts were on Kevin and how was she going to tell him that she no longer desired to have sex with him. Here she was totally unsatisfied while he laid in the bed more than likely smoking a cigarette and watching television. All she wanted was someone to spend a little more time paying attention to her needs. But with Kevin it was always the same. She would give him oral sex and then he would turn her around and penetrate her from the back. Yes, he loved that position, and that was good for maybe five minutes or so. Then he would put her in the missionary position with her legs all the way behind her shoulders and then he would just ram away. Regina loved it a little rough but she needs more than what she was getting. She had to tell him and now was just as good a time as any.


I had been with my wife for ten years and we had reached a point where

Published Saturday, 15th Aug 04:48 BST

I had been with my wife for ten years and we had reached a point where the passion had long since left us. It was now a safe relationship. It wasn't lovable rather comfortable.We were only in our mid thirties so this concerned me. I had been visiting dating websites on the quiet and I found more excitement there then I had in yearsI don't know what happened to us. It used to be such a lovable relationship.


Kara was walking down the street when suddenly, a man bump into her. "

Published Friday, 14th Aug 10:02 BST

Kara was walking down the street when suddenly, a man bump into her. "I'm sorry" the only thing the man said and continue striding away. Kara was struck and was not able to get up right away since she was knocked down, she just thought the man was in hurry for his date, this london dating is normal. 7 days and 23 hours since she arrived in said place, she came here for a vacation and to run away from the current problem she is facing. Very confused and lost on what to do after she knew that there is a new life growing in her. She never thought that after very passionate night with Ed came this "Ed, we both have done this! why are you doing this to me?" " Kara! you and I know that this relationship could not go any further!my love for you is passionate but I can't do what you want me to" explained Ed. "But we are already in this situation, you couldn't leave me alone!" as Kara sobbed. "I already told you the best thing that we can do." "No!! I could never do that! I want to keep my baby. I want him" she yelled. Ed didn't say a word, turned his back and walked away "Ed! don't leave me!" "you can't leave me, you love me right? you just said that your love is passionate, so u can't afford to leave me' Kara begged and was down to the floor. Ed picked Kara to cuddle her with his arms and placed her in her bed. "I'm so sorry Kara, I love you" kissed her forehead and left. She jumped off and hugged him behind "Ed, pls. don't leave me, hug me, kiss me, cuddle me until sunrise" "as much as I want to kiss you, hug you and cuddle you all night you know I can't"Ed continued his paces and left her. This was the last thing Kara could remember, she tried to call him a million times but he didn't pick-up the phone. It has been a month and 5 days that she never talked to him. Ed has been and always be Kara's first love but both of them knew that it would be impossible for them to be together because she is not his first love but his wife and she proved it when Ed left her after knowing that she is carrying their child. She regretted the day that she believed all his promises, she vividly remember when Ed knelt in front of her to confess his love "I love you too Ed, and I want you to know that you are my first love" but little did she know that that man is very much married but when she knew his status she can't leave him because she can't leave without him, she loves him so much. Kara's back to her feet and continued walking in the street aimlessly. She can't be without him. Her mind is very consummated with the thoughts of him, her heart ached so much each time she could remember his hugs and kisses. As she passed by the London Bridge she stopped in the middle of it and cried, sobbed, shouted, swore loudly "Ed, I LOVE YOU!!!". People gathered around in the middle of the London bridge and got so awed by what they have witnessed, they looked down but they see nothing only the disturbed water running down the bridge, no sight of the unknown woman who jumped off it.


It's every girl's dream to meet their prince charming and start dating

Published Friday, 14th Aug 10:00 BST

It's every girl's dream to meet their prince charming and start dating. Marie, ared haired sixteen year old teen had always loved watching romantic movies. She could feel her blood rushed through her veins as she watched her screen idol hold the actress in loving tenderness. Often, she would imagine herself in the place of the actress. Even though it wasn't real, it was exciting enough for her.


I was writing a column on cheaper dating for the local newspaper I wor

Published Friday, 14th Aug 06:11 BST

I was writing a column on cheaper dating for the local newspaper I work for when I found a site that seemed to be able offer that and much more. It was a link on google that was able to hold my attention with the mention of free dating sites. It seemed to be the best solution for all; it was free, you never had to worry about a kiss after the first dating, if you did not like the guy you can just disconnect form the internet, you could do it in the comfort of your own home, andyou never had to waste money on a new dress, matching shoes, or makeup.


I could be called an 'old-hat' when it comes to on-line dating because

Published Thursday, 13th Aug 00:34 BST

I could be called an 'old-hat' when it comes to on-line dating because I have had some amazing experiences with it and realized how much fun it was to hook up with a complete stranger who was also into on-line dating. I logged into my regular dating service and filled in a new profile, saying that I was looking for a tall, dark and handsome man and describing myself as a stunning blond, newly separated and looking for fun-times. You should have seen my mail-box bulging with replies! I wondered how I could sort out the genuine from the pretentious ones, but read through each reply and decided to give them a bit of a test that would help me eliminate a few of the 'odd-balls'. So I wrote to each of them and asked what they would do if they discovered I wasn't a stunning blonde after all but happened to be a beautiful brunette instead. Well, most of them didn't really care but the few that did were most indignant that I would 'lie' to them on my profile and it only proved to me that those ones were highly superficial because they placed so much emphasis on appearance rather than the person herself. The other 'test' I devised was to ask them what they considered handsome about themselves, for example, their eyes, their face, their previous girlfriend's opinion of them. Some of the replies were hilarious - I especially liked the guys who wouldbe light-hearted and funnyby saying things like 'you would be bowled over by how handsome I am' or 'I am as handsome as you are stunning!' so I continued to correspond with them, finding out more about them and deciding whether or not I should take that next step and actually meet them. I believe that one should always be careful with on-line dating because you really never know whether the person is who they say they are or what their actual background is. It is amazing how much the truth is stretched when people fill out theirprofiles, like myself for instance, I did consider myself a stunning blond but that was probably several years ago before I got married, had children and ditched my husband for an on-line fling instead...


Dating had always been a foreign language to me. I had married my high

Published Wednesday, 5th Aug 02:37 BST

Dating had always been a foreign language to me. I had married my high school sweetheart and was still married to him today. So when my fourteen year old daughter came up to me and asked how people dated and what they did or what they talked about, I was unsure how to answer. She was so adorable staring at me with her big blue eyes and cute little puppy dog face and I had no idea what to say.


Steve was startled by the phone. Grabbing it, he barked a rather impol

Published Saturday, 1st Aug 23:15 BST

Steve was startled by the phone. Grabbing it, he barked a rather impolite "What?" into the mouthpiece. "Well, that's nice," his girlfriend replied, in that icy tone that Steve knew meant he'd done something wrong. "What's up, beautiful?" he said, trying to add some lightness to the tone. "Don't "beautiful" me, Steve. Why do you do this to me every time we have plans?" Steve wracked his brain, which was currently swimming in sales forecast numbers, trying to remember what he was supposed to be doing tonight.


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